Reflections on 2017 + 2018 Goals

With the first month of motherhood (and 2018) under my belt, I feel like I can reflect on the personal triumphs and trials of 2017 and set some goals for this year! I was pregnant for the majority of last year, so my priorities shifted a bit. However, I still managed to stay on top of a few goals. You may recall my 5 goals for 2017, but in case you’re new to the blog, here’s a quick recap + review:

2017 goals –
  1. Exercise a minimum of 30 minutes a day, 5 days a week – Shortly after I became pregnant, I joined our local YMCA branch. I attended a couple Zumba classes, which I loved, every week until I entered the 3rd trimester and those movements took on a whole new level of difficulty & coordination. I tried to commit to working out 3 times each week until the very end of pregnancy and I was pretty darn successful. I definitely feel the most proud of my accomplishment with this goal! Also, I credit my activity level in 2017 with my ability to have a natural (unmedicated) childbirth.
  2. Read 20 books – Turns out, I am very slow with books. I ended up reading a total of 13 books (same as 2016). I will say, I read A LOT of information about pregnancy & birth, which probably added up to several books. I was disappointed when I realized I wouldn’t hit this goal, but I am turning that disappointment into motivation for 2018.
  3. Try 10 new recipes – I didn’t keep a consistent record, but I know I surpassed this goal! The favorite new recipe of 2017 was chicken enchiladas. My husband loves these so much & whenever I cooked them for friends they requested the recipe! I enjoyed branching out with home cooked meals.
  4. Practice photography – I completely lost track of this goal early in the year. I only posted a few blog posts during my entire pregnancy, so I wasn’t taking photos for the blog. I never really looked into an e-course, either. This isn’t necessarily another main goal for 2018, but I would like to continue developing this skill.
  5. Listen – This practice continues to be an area of struggle for me. My thoughts seem to cloud my head and I often get distracted when listening – to God, my husband, and my friends. I am naming distraction and a cluttered mind as potential strongholds, so I plan to be vigilant in fighting those going forward.
2018 Goals – 
  1. Read 20 books – I know what you’re thinking – “You tried this last year & it didn’t work out. Don’t you think your goal should be a little less lofty?” Nope! I fully believe that I need this challenge in my life. I already have a curated stack of books, plenty of hot tea, and the motivation to expand my knowledge & enjoyment through literature.
  2. Organize the pantry & linen closets – I would say I want to organize the whole house, but let’s be real. I’ve long desired to organize the kitchen pantry and both of our linen closets. Whenever I open one of these doors, I am instantly frustrated by the chaos within. I’m using The Home Edit as my inspiration – they are my organizational heroes!
  3. Develop a daily practice of silence – I recently began listening to the podcast The Next Right Thing by Emily P. Freeman and the first episode is all about dedicated time of silence/stillness for your soul. Life is hectic. Working, mothering, creating – these are all good things that can easily become overwhelmingly LOUD. I plan to spend at least 5 minutes every day in total silence with the Lord. I know this will be tough, but I also eagerly anticipate the growth I will experience through this time.
  4. Post more frequently on the blog – I can make 100 excuses for why I don’t have time for the blog, but the truth is I’m afraid. I don’t like the idea of trying a DIY project and it failing. I hate rejection in any form, so posting publicly is terrifying. I want to remember that perfection is not the goal. This blog is an outlet for my creative side and I want to nurture that this year. I’m making my official goal to post two times every month. If I end up posting more, that will be great, but I want to have a realistic/attainable goal to aim toward.
  5. Spend more time in nature – The cold winter months have me craving hikes, canoe rides, soccer in the park, and many other outdoor activities. This year, I want to experience creation as often as possible/weather-permitting. Especially, I want to introduce my son to nature and the beauty all around us. Family picnics and walks sound like the most fulfilling activities right now! Again, weather and health play a huge role in this, but I would like to get outside for a minimum of 30 minutes, 4-5 times each week.

Whew! It feels great to get these goals solidified and public. I fully believe in the power of accountability, so I welcome your continued feedback throughout the year. I will try to post at least 1 progress report, likely during the summer months. Let me know some of your goals for the year in the comments below! Let’s make the most of the time we’re given – each day is a gift!

Birth Announcement!

I am thrilled to announce the birth of my first child, Harrison Jonah Sheffield! After 26 hours of labor & zero pain meds, Harrison entered the world on December 30th at 4:03 am weighing 6 pounds, 9 ounces & measuring 19.5 inches long. Some truly unexpected complications landed him in the NICU for 5 days after birth, but he overcame every obstacle with incredible strength. Though unforeseen and quite terrifying at times, his extended hospital stay immediately required trust in the Lord’s faithfulness and sovereignty. My husband and I needed the reminder that our son belongs to God, first and foremost.

The past month held many challenges, to be sure. However, nothing in this world gives me greater joy than stepping into the role of Harrison’s mama. Each time negativity tempts me (I’m looking at you, sleep deprivation), I stop & choose gratitude. When I look at Harrison, nothing else matters and I am convinced he is worth every difficult moment. If there’s one thing I can say with confidence after this short time, it is that motherhood requires sacrifice & selflessness at every turn. Nevertheless, the privilege of shepherding a new life in this world is an honor. This journey is a humbling endeavor & I am so thankful to experience it. 

Planning a Neutral Nursery

Preparing for life with a baby is one of the most special experiences of my life. While it’s tempting to become overwhelmed by the physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, and even social changes that accompany pregnancy and life with a baby, I am striving to be fully present during this season and enjoy every moment. Life is full of unknowns and many things we cannot control, so I’m learning greater trust and finding satisfaction in planning where I can.

I can hardly believe that October is 2 days away! With only about 12 weeks remaining before baby Sheffield makes his arrival, I am starting to feel the urgency to prepare a place for him. I want his room to be inviting and uplifting, especially during those 3 AM feedings.  One note of importance: I want to create a neutral nursery, no matter the gender. My ideal space is bright and airy with natural wood, textured rugs or wall hangings, baskets, and plants. Creating a mood board for the nursey helps me stick to my vision. Here you can see the items that are providing the inspiration for my nursery makeover.Neutral Nursery Mood Board - Discovering Grace

pendant light | logging truck | rug | plant | letter board | wooden toy camera | mirror | crib | rocker | teether | dinosaur plush | wall hanging | swaddle | baskets | tripod floor lamp | changing table

Can you tell I’m obsessed with all things ‘W’? Wood, woven [textures], and white! I’m so excited to start making this vision a reality. My favorite part of interior decorating is the transformation of a “blank canvas” room. Plus, I have extra motivation since this space will be where our little bundle of joy learns, plays, & grows over the years. We highly anticipate his introduction into our lives and my heart is overflowing with gratitude during this season of preparation.

Big Announcement

Hello, friends! I’ve recently taken a bit of a hiatus here on the blog, but I have a pretty good reason. Are you ready for my big announcement? Many of you already know and I have waited far too long to post on the blog…we’re having a baby! Brett and I are beyond excited to be on this journey together. Every day I thank God for the miracle of life and feel truly humbled at the opportunity to be a mother to this little gift.DG - Baby AnnouncementMy sweet friend, Katherine, knitted this little plush kitten and I’m obsessed!

Generally, I’m fairly private when it comes to my pregnancy (particularly on social media), but I do want to document updates here along the way. Today, I thought I would share my answers to a handful of some of the more common questions I am asked when I tell people I’m pregnant.

  • How far along are you? 18 weeks!
  • When is your due date? So, I’ll go ahead and let you know I will be referring to this date as my “guess date” from here on out as that removes the mental pressure and expectation of a specific birth date. Guess date = December 21st. That’s right…a Christmas baby.
  • Do you know the gender yet? We will know in 3 weeks and I cannot wait! I promise to share here on the blog once we find out!
  • Do you have any cravings? Umm. Is everything a craving? Seriously, I mostly crave savory foods over sweet, which means all. the. carbs. I’ve been focusing on eating more vegetables in my second trimester since I kind of threw my normal diet out during the first 12-14 weeks. I also joined the YMCA, so my activity has increased. Exercise has been super enjoyable for me lately, so let’s hope that continues!
  • How do you feel? Honestly, I feel amazing. I consider myself extremely fortunate because I feel better pregnant than before I was pregnant. My hormones seem more balanced (crazy, right?!) and I have more confidence. I get tired earlier in the evenings than before, but falling asleep on the couch has sort of become a ritual, haha. Overall, I love being pregnant!
  • Have you thought of any names yet? We have and I think we’ve settled on a couple options for either gender, but it’s definitely difficult when you don’t know whether you’re having a boy or girl. We’ll be able to decide in a few weeks and that’s very exciting!
  • How will this change the blog? For the record, no one has asked this question, but I want my readers to know what they can expect from this new chapter of life. I will have regular posts under the category of “Motherhood” ranging from registry items to nursery DIYs. Additionally, I plan to have regular posts after our baby is born regarding helpful tips and parenting experience. I don’t want the blog to change drastically, but I’m open to whatever direction it takes over the next year or so. I will still be providing content you expect from a lifestyle blog, with an added feature for motherhood.

Lastly, I want to offer my deepest sympathy for mothers who have experienced loss of a child and those women who desperately long for motherhood with no results. I can’t imagine your pain, but I do know that your hurt has purpose and your story is impactful. You are never alone and I pray God meets you in the midst and carries you, peacefully, to a place of comfort and joy.

Nontoxic Product Round-Up Part 1

Discovering Grace - Nontoxic Product Round-Up Part 1As you know, nontoxic products are something I have become quite passionate about in recent months. I shared a little bit about my transition away from chemical-laden beauty & household cleaning products in my Spring Wish List post. One of my goals with this transition is to find DIY options that may be more budget-friendly in the long-run.

Today, I want to share some products I’ve found to be helpful as I experiment with different DIYs. Some of these items are amazing on their own, but I’ve also discovered that combining them can create some incredible variations of popular products. So far I’ve made face masks, toner, after sun spray, and more! So, let’s take a look at a handful of my favorite nontoxic ingredients right now!

Nontoxic Products

Thayers Unscented Witch Hazel – Witch hazel is a natural astringent which tightens skin and reduces inflammation. This makes it perfect for a toner on it’s own, but combining it with rose water, cucumber, or lemongrass can create lovely scents. Plus, those additions have positive skin health properties! I chose the unscented option so I could pair it with a variety of other scents without them competing.

Discovering Grace - Nontoxic Product Round-Up Part 1

doTERRA Essential Oils – I cannot say enough good things about essential oils and the positive impact that they’ve had on me and my family! I truly believe they have promoted a healthier lifestyle for us. My husband & I get oils from Amazon Prime and it’s wonderful! Our favorites are lavender, peppermint, wild orange, and doTerra’s Breathe, & On Guard oil blends. I’m telling you, these will improve your life so much!

Trader Joe’s Vitamin E Oil – Vitamin E oil moisturizes skin and helps reduce the appearance of scars. I recently combined Vitamin E oil with witch hazel and lavender & peppermint essential oils to relieve a sunburn. That combination worked wonders to soothe my skin!

Discovering Grace - Nontoxic Product Round-Up Part 1

Aztec Secret Indian Healing Clay – Per the recommendation of a friend, I use this clay for face masks because it absorbs toxins really well. My face was noticeably brighter and clearer after my first use! I highly suggest giving this a try.

Activated Charcoal – Activated charcoal helps remove toxins, so I’ve been using it to treat blemishes caused by acne and also to whiten my teeth naturally.

If you are interested in pursuing a less toxic beauty routine, go for it! It can be intimidating if you let it, but I promise you can make subtle changes and notice a real difference. I have done a ton of research and I am still learning. I would encourage everyone to swap out 1 or 2 products at a time and make a gradual transition. If you have any suggestions for nontoxic brands you love or any DIYs, please let me know in the comments!

*This is not a sponsored post. All thoughts are based on my personal experience with these products.

2017 Goals Update

DG-2017 Goals Update

You guys. This year is absolutely flying by! With the realization that May is almost here also comes the reminder to get serious about my goals. As promised, I’m here to check in with an update on my goals for 2017. To be honest, I’m not as far along in these goals as I would like to be at this point in the year, but my mantra is “progress over perfection”. Hopefully, you read my 5 Goals for 2017 post at the end of last year. If not, here’s a quick recap & update of my top 5 goals this year:

    1. Exercise a minimum of 30 minutes a day, 5 days a week – Exercise took a hit at the end of February/early March when we went on vacation. I wanted so badly to stick with it, but I got a little slack. Thankfully, I rediscovered my motivation and have been finding new ways to get those 30 minutes of exercise in. I walk with a few ladies from work several days a week and it has been a great way to stay accountable!
    2. Read 20 books – At this time, I’ve read 4 books. I’m in the middle of 2 others right now. I’m trying to balance nonfiction with fiction which may be why I’m reading at a slower pace than I would prefer. I plan to spend more time reading on the weekends.
    3. Try 10 new recipes – I must admit, I have not been pursuing this goal at all. Writing this post reminded me to hold myself accountable, so I planned a new recipe for one of our dinners this week!
    4. Practice photography – Other than taking photos for a few recent blog posts, I have not dedicated time to practicing my photography. I’m still looking for an e-course that can challenge me with creative photography. Please let me know if you have any suggestions!
    5. Listen – This may be the most difficult of all my goals. I do struggle to listen intently, so I have been practicing this with family, friends, and co-workers. It’s a process, no doubt!

I hope you’ve enjoyed this update and that it has inspired you to continue pursuing your goals!

Spring Wish List

Spring Wish List - Discovering GraceToday, I’m sharing a little spring wish list with a focus on two areas I’m trying to improve: skin care & style. One major task I have going on in my life right now is transitioning to non-toxic beauty and household cleaning products. I am doing a lot of research and trying to be budget-friendly, so the process is kind of arduous, but I am loving it! I have a tendency to want quick fixes, but I’m learning that slow & purposeful really does have so many benefits. 

Skin care

After reading this blog post from Ali over on Inspiralized.com, I was inspired to take the plunge and start swapping out my beauty and skin care products for non-toxic items. She encouraged her readers to download the Think Dirty app and check the toxicity levels of all their current products. Think Dirty is a product comparison app that rates toxicity from 0-10 (0 being least toxic, 10 being highly toxic). I was shocked to find several of my “natural” products were an 8 or 9! Once I evaluated the current state of things, I started determining the priority of items I needed to swap.

Style

I’ve also been simplifying my wardrobe lately and realizing my go-to styles and colors. This is helping me resist the urge to buy something unless it fits within the style guidelines I’ve created. I’m also researching ways to make more ethical purchases. This pushes me to save money and plan ahead to buy better quality items that will last longer. For years, I have bought cheap clothes and shoes that only last a season or two, at best. I want to simplify my wardrobe with quality purchases when I can.

The List

1. This book is at the top of my Amazon wish list & I plan to buy it later this week. I have heard many great things about it and I’m excited to learn more about natural skin care.

2. I have a love/hate relationship with Herbivore Botanicals. Such beautiful branding & packaging, but the price can be a bit overwhelming for the girl who usually spends less than $10 on products at Target! Like I said earlier, though, I am learning to value quality and I know these products are top of the line.

3. I have always been a fan of the Toms brand and I must say their sunglasses are so stylish! Bonus: For every purchase, Toms provides eye care for someone in need!

4. This book has been making waves recently and I can’t wait to dive in. My closet/style has needed some serious fine-tuning for years and I feel very inspired this season to work on it!

5. I just love a good leather sandle for spring & summer. These caught my eye & I’m using them as my warm weather shoe-muse!

I do hope as this non-toxic, ethical trend grows, we will see more affordable/accessible options that offer a great product without sacrificing quality. I would love to hear from you if you have recommendations for products or resources that can help with this transition!

DIY Grown Up Easter Baskets

DIY Grown Up Easter Baskets - Discovering GraceI must say that Easter is my favorite holiday. The season surrounding it is truly delightful. I love in spring how we, along with nature, shake off the weight of winter and blossom with renewed purpose and hope for what lies ahead. For me, the awakening that takes place during this season exemplifies the heart of Easter: the resurrection of Jesus. It is here where we discover the gift of grace in it’s purest form and celebration ensues!  

Speaking of gifts, it’s no secret that I love gift-giving! There is something so special about gathering items and creating the perfect gift for someone I love. Since Easter is fast-approaching, I thought it would be fun to make some “grown up” Easter baskets. I decided to make two baskets with different themes: food & spa.DIY Grown Up Easter Baskets - Discovering Grace

DIY Grown Up Easter Baskets - Discovering GraceTraditionally, Easter baskets are filled to the brim with assorted candies and chocolates and they are usually brightly colored. However, I wanted to go in a softer, simpler direction with style. For the food basket, I chose sparkling wine, cheese, crackers, and chocolate (duh!). The spa basket contains sparkling rosé, chocolate, my DIY bath soak , and a lovely candle.

Supplies:
  • baskets (I got mine at World Market)
  • gift filler
  • various goodies to fit your theme (wine, chocolate, candles, etc.)

DIY Grown Up Easter Baskets - Discovering GraceI absolutely adore the packaging on those Mast chocolate bars! Swoon.DIY Grown Up Easter Baskets - Discovering GraceYou can customize these gift baskets in so many ways! For example, I think a gardening themed basket would also make a great gift this season for those with a green thumb. I hope this post inspires you to make some baskets for your friends and family members!
Happy Easter!

Matcha Mule – A New Twist on a Classic Sip

Discovering Grace - Matcha MuleI’d like to start this post by sharing a fact about myself: I very rarely do/buy something simply because it’s trendy or popular. In fact, I often avoid trying things for that reason. However, I am also a firm believer that everyone should be confident in their likes/dislikes. Sometimes I like something that’s super trendy and that is okay. One trend I’ve noticed a lot lately and am totally on board with is matcha!

I was first introduced when I worked as a barista at Starbucks and have loved it ever since. In case you aren’t familiar, matcha is finely ground powder made from green tea. Matcha contains a very high concentration of antioxidants, boosts metabolism, and naturally detoxifies the body. Those are just a few of the many health benefits! As you might have guessed, the powder is a bright green color which I think adds fun to the experience!Discovering Grace - Matcha MuleWith St. Patrick’s Day right around the corner, I thought it might be fun to use matcha in a fun cocktail creation. This may seem counterintuitive to all those health benefits I mentioned, but I think adding it to a cocktail will balance everything out. I decided to do a twist on my favorite cocktail, the Moscow Mule.

I love how light + refreshing this drink is and the matcha adds just a hint of flavor and a bold color to celebrate the holiday. Bonus: this could easily make a delicious mocktail for those who don’t drink alcohol! I am Irish through and through, so I definitely plan to celebrate my heritage on St. Patty’s Day!  If you try this recipe, let me know what you think! 

Matcha Mule, serves 1

Ingredients
  • 1 – 1.5 oz. vodka
  • .5 oz. fresh-squeezed lime juice
  • 4 oz. ginger beer
  • 1 tsp. matcha (cold brew)
  • lime wheel and/or mint sprig for garnish

Discovering Grace - Matcha Mule

Instructions
  1. To make cold brew matcha add 1 tsp. matcha powder to 6 oz. cold water. Shake until matcha is dissolved.
  2. Pour lime juice into glass or copper mug.
  3. Add enough ice (I prefer crushed) to fill glass.
  4. Pour vodka and ginger beer over ice.
  5. Add matcha – I used 4 teaspoons of cold brew matcha to get the color I liked. Add more or less depending on preference.
  6. Stir gently.
  7. Add a lime wheel or sprig of mint for garnish.
  8. Enjoy!

Discovering Grace - Matcha Mule

Discovering Grace - Matcha Mule

DIY Bath Soak Valentine’s Gift

You guys, Valentine’s Day is fast-approaching and I have the perfect DIY gift for you and your friends! Since Valentine’s Day is on a Tuesday this year, it makes sense to skip the crowded restaurants and opt for an in-home spa experience instead. I can think of no better way to relax after a long day at work than a peaceful bath – glass of wine optional.

I’ve been on a mission for months to rid my house of chemical-laden products. However, the natural and chemical-free products can often be a bit more expensive. I decided I could make my own versions of some of my favorite products with just a few ingredients (most of which I already had on-hand). This bath soak is all-natural and an ideal gift for Valentine’s Day!

For the bath soak, I used:

  • 1 cup himalayan salt
  • 1 cup epsom salt
  • 10 drops ylang ylang essential oil
  • 10 drops wild orange essential oil
  • glass bottles (I got mine at Michaels)

Ylang Ylang essential oil is commonly used for its antidepressant properties which reduce anxiety and stress. Wild Orange essential oil is known for its pleasant smell and ability to uplift your mood. Himalayan salt has many health benefits, but one I find particularly helpful is the promotion of stable pH balance. Plus, it definitely doesn’t hurt that it’s pretty & pink! Lastly, epsom salt is always helpful in soothing sore muscles and other aches/pains. This combination is sure to provide you with a wonderful, stress-free evening. 

Instructions:

First, I combined both salts in a bowl and mixed together well. Then I added the essential oils and mixed in with the salts to disperse the oil. Lastly, I portioned out the perfect amount for each bottle which has enough contents for two baths, added my gift tag, and voila! So easy and so beautiful!


As with most things, I love how versatile this DIY is. You could combine any number of essential oils and herbs to create your perfect soak. I think lavender or eucalyptus would also make amazing options! Be sure to let me know in the comments if you give this DIY a try!